Now and then there are discussions in every relationship about everyday life, structures, issues or even the future. Since our everyday life was pretty structured and secured and we had good jobs
and a nice flat, I was wondering one day, how life should actually go on. Especially as a woman, you have an internal clock or an alarm that suddenly rings and says, "Come on, it's time for
weddings, kids and house building!" I think the women amongst us know what I mean. Men, on the other hand, tend to feel more relaxed and focus firstly on their jobs and lives before the
seriousness of life begins.
Because of my thoughts, a typical man-woman-discussion about future started.
However, this question cannot always be answered because nobody knows what will actually happen in the future. Life can change at any time. That's why my partner has the motto "We live in the
here and now". So we talked for a while and came to the conclusion, before it will become even more serious, to realize a dream together - actually several at the same time. In my partner's case,
he wanted to do a Master of Business Administration and live in Australia. In my case, I wanted to live and work at the seaside somewhere abroad. This fitted perfectly together, even if I have to
put back my typical woman wishes. However, those of you who already have children know that once you get there, you will automatically reset all your wishes, as a child is a very special kind of
happiness for which you are trying to give everything.
Thats´s why we decided to enjoy life together for a while and make our dreams come true.
However, for living in another country you need to prepare a lot. In the following you will find a short overview about things, which are important and should help you with your preparation
for going abroad. These tips are mainly related to Germany and may vary depending on your country.
Preparation tips for moving to another country:
- Visa (residence permit) - Obtain and request information, this requires a valid passport and possibly other documents. Go on the website of your chosen country to figure out what you need exactly.
- Have enough savings, a scholarship or an organisation, depending on whether you want to do work and travel, study or work.
- Cancel your German residency! Otherwise (depending on length of stay) it can be expensive, as national insurance and health insurance continue to be paid. (Unless you have someone who financially supports you)
- Cancel insurance policies and contracts (telephone, internet, health insurance, etc.) or set them inactive. Inform them that you are abroad for a certain period of time.
- Cancel your flat on time. My suggestion is to provide an alternative address (such as your parents´ address) or sign up for a redirection contract with the post to get your post for the next month to the alternative address.
- Cancel your job and talk openly with your employer about your plans. Sometimes, new doors will open up, such as financial assistance or special company leave, so that you can come back any time.
- Inform yourself about rules and laws of the other country (especially health insurance, superannuation etc.)
- Book flights and accommodations (AirBnB, hostel, hotel) for the first few days in your new country. From there, you can search for a new flat without pressure.
- Book a language course, if you are not familiar and confident with the new language.
- Write a packing list.
I hope I could give you a little insight and make the preparations a little bit easier for you😊
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